Albert in 1842 by Winterhalter Royal Collection Public domain |
'Only the husband'
In May 1840 Albert wroteIn my whole life I am very happy and contented; but the difficulty in filling my place with the proper dignity is that I am only the husband and not the master of the house.
But his first breakthrough came in September when his heavily pregnant wife made him a member of the privy council. Soon afterwards she gave him a duplicate set of keys to her official boxes. Her nine pregnancies and her bouts of post-natal depression gave Albert the opportunity to have an ever-greater say in policy. He was soon carving out a role for himself and re-fashioning the hitherto undefined role of the consort of a reigning queen. He was also establishing his position as head of the family.
Albert takes control
Victoria and Albert had very different temperaments and this led to tensions within the marriage. In January 1842, when the Princess Royal became ill, Albert blamed his wife and the royal physician, Sir James Clark for mismanaging the nursery: ‘if she dies you will have it on your conscience’. He also blamed Baroness Louise Lehzen, who had become Victoria’s governess after previously teaching Princess Fedora, calling her ‘a crazy, stupid intriguer, obsessed with the lust of power'.In the same month he wrote to Stockmar,
Victoria is too hasty and passionate… She will not hear me out but flies into a rage and overwhelms me with reproaches of …want of trust, ambition, envy etc, etc.
But he secured his victory when Lehzen was retired with a pension in July 1842.
This victory was to have significant implications for the couple’s marriage. It established Albert's dominance, with Victoria happy to take a subordinate role. Had the wilful young woman become a clinging vine?